Well, Maybe.

I simply can’t understand what Mom might have meant when she said (to paraphrase) that my brain was just not in the blogging world right now. Seriously, haven’t you all been reading my twice-weekly posts? Haven’t you noticed how concise, witty, thought-provoking, and clear I have been?

To be totally honest, there have been passing moments of clarity in some of my days. I have thought of things to blog about for several months now. I even have a series of now irrelevant photos that were originally destined to be blogged. Hmm. However, I have not given up on blogging – it has just been relegated to that same class of activity as cleaning the bathroom. You know, things that you would like to do someday if you get a chance.

I will go on the record as saying that explaining the nuances of Christian living to two two-year-olds is a rich experience, and one that is likely to take the blogging out of me. Our twins are hilarious and outrageous, and completely delightful. I love the two-year-old phase: from the “my do it,” and the fact that we need to talk about who is actually in charge, to  my son telling me, “Look in my eyes, Mama” as he makes an effort at getting out of some well-deserved discipline. Perpetual hilarity – the kind that can leave me panting on the couch more often than is really reasonable. But the wildness of these little personalities is such a joy to corral and shape.

As I write, I have one on my lap, one perched on the arm of my chair, and one standing beside me. Wait, strike that. One is behind me on the chair with his arms around my neck, one is on my lap, and all three are cashing in on promises of glue and paper and scissors. I will go make good on this promise and be back to finish this post in no time. Just hold on a second!

A Nana Bracelet

My sweet friend Michelle has made me a “Nana bracelet” as a surprise gift, and you must take a look!  She and her six little beauties have this website so you can order your own or one for your mom, sister, daughter, mother-in-law, grandma, teacher, or friend. I have looked and looked for a fun little bracelet celebrating my fifteen grandkids, but all I have been able to find has been too ornate, dangly, goofy, or splashy for my taste since I would need a full fifteen charms. So this is not only a fun surprise, but it is exactly what I have been wishing for. It is perfect! It has the birthstone of each of my fifteen grandkids, in order of birth, separated by little sterling and gold filled beads. Just lovely. She has a picture of my bracelet on her website (called Nancy Birthstone) so you can see how pretty it is.

While you are looking at her website, be sure to look at the cute family picture behind the “about” button. (Big news: Though not in the picture, the six sisters now have a baby brother!)

Thank you Michelle and Six Sisters Beadworks for this. I will enjoy and treasure my Nana bracelet!

In the Trenches

So what have the femina girls been up to lately?

All three have kids at Logos this year, for a grand total of nine cousins who must be ready to go, dressed in their uniforms, with their lunches packed by 8:10 or so each morning. Their parents have signed their kids up for quite an array of extra-curricular activities. Are you ready for this? Hunter safety (yep, you can get a hunting license in Idaho at age 12 if you’ve passed hunter safety, and Knox passed with flying colors), basketball, art class, singing school, piano lessons, ballet, and hockey.

Bekah is a room mom, so she just made a big cardboard sled for last week’s class play from The Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe. One side is white for the white witch, and the other side is red for Father Christmas. It’s splendid!

Rachel is six weeks out from delivery of #5 whom they affectionately refer to as Pinto (named while still a little bean). Besides enjoying the constant entertainment supplied by two two-year-old’s, a three, and a five year old, she keeps knitting like crazy, and now has broken in her new serger by making the three little girls matching skirts. But blogging requires a different part of her brain, and it cannot be spared right now. The twins are full time funny business, and they are trying to convince their mother that they are no longer in need of a nap. Rachel has other ideas.

Heather’s day is comparable. Little Marisol, her newest little beauty, has strong opinions about being set down. She smiles and coos and has lots to share, especially with her mama. Rory just turned eight yesterday, and Heather and I had fun in the kitchen making him his favorites: strawberry-rhubarb pie and apple pie, two of each. Oh, they were delish. (I’m sorry we did not take photos. But trust me on that one.)

In the trenches. That’s where my girls are living these days. That’s where the action is. And what are they doing down there? Making big cardboard sleds, skirts, and pies.

Good News

How typical and characteristic of him! He did the same thing on the cross itself,  you remember, even after they had driven the cruel nails into his hands and his feet. There, dying on the cross, he had time to speak to that thief dying by his side. Bearing in his own body the sins of the world, he had sufficient compassion and love and sympathy and understanding to turn to the wretched man who was there being crucified with him….That is Jesus, the Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ whom we preach. He is the center of this New Testament message and gospel. He is the one who, though he is the Son of God himself, is ready and willing and able to meet us exactly where we are.

from Martyn Lloyd-Jones in Let Not Your Hearts Be Troubled

Principles Without Grace

The Bible is full of commands for us to obey, but without the grace to do them, we just load ourselves up with impossible to-do lists accompanied by large doses of guilt.

For instance, we are to rejoice always. How can we do this when we don’t feel like rejoicing? We can pretend until it gets too hard, and then we can snap at the kids. The Bible tells us to love our  children. How can we do this when we are tired and the kids need our attention and patience? Patience wears thin quickly when we are looking to our own resources and clamping down on our own annoyance.

If we think that we can live the Christian life merely by having lots of high-sounding biblical principles, then we are guaranteed a face plant. And when we face plant, we can thank God that He has kindly shown us our weakness, so we can turn to Him for strength. We are needy creatures and we need a Savior. When we look to Christ and ask for His strength, He freely gives us all we need. This includes a cheerful spirit, even when we don’t feel like it, love for our neighbor when our neighbor is unkind. Jesus carries our burdens, comforts our sorrows, refreshes our spirits, raises us from the dead with Him.

We must not simply reduce the Christian life to a list of rules about courtship, marriage, and childrearing. No matter how many books we read or how many seminars and conferences we attend, if we are not looking to Christ, it is all a bunch of nothing. But if we have grace, then good teaching will point us to Christ over and over again, and we will become more like Him with each new principle that we learn and apply. This is our sanctification. Being and doing are two different things, and the one must precede the other. First we are to be attached to Christ; then we do what He commands. This is how we work out what He has worked in.

Our Homeschooling Friends

My friend Eileen Lawyer has written a nice little piece on homeschooling that is here if you would like to check it out. And the blog hosting her article belongs to one of our party-goers (from Mexico City), so it’s possible you have found it in your blog party going.  Though Doug and I did not homeschool our own kids (he started Logos School instead), we are certainly friends of homeschooling.  In fact we are attending a homeschooling convention next month in Cincinnati where Doug will be speaking. Anyway, Eileen has homeschooled their one child, and she is a great encouragement to many other homeschooling moms. And I’ve noticed from reading your blogs, a whole bunch of y’all are homeschooling moms too. I think I spot a trend in my readers!