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Christmas Hands

12 / 15 / 1412 / 15 / 14
By Nancy Ann | Filed under Uncategorized | Tags: Everything Christmas

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Last week we had our annual Christmas party for the ladies’ fellowship in our church. Many volunteered to be table hostesses, which meant they brought a Christmas centerpiece and table settings for a table of nine. I have no idea how many tables we jammed into the room we rented, but my guess was at least twelve or fifteen, and each one was decorated so entirely differently, reflecting the culture and joy of each hostess.

Then everyone brought an appetizer to share, so we had five or six long tables spread with all kinds of delicious and beautiful appetizers. It was fabulous! We ate, we sang Christmas carols, we visited, and we listened to three lovely speakers.

But here’s what struck me. With the room full of over one hundred women, I thought we should have all lifted up our hands to view the tremendous force for good represented in that room. These are the hands that are going to make Christmas “happen” for hundreds of people. These are the hands that will shop, cook, make lists, buy, wrap, bake, decorate, stuff, give, and stay up way too late doing it all. These are the hands that will sew and stamp and Read More

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Christmas Kindness

12 / 7 / 1412 / 7 / 14
By Nancy Ann | Filed under Uncategorized | Tags: Everything Christmas

photo(62)When we think of kindness, we think of generosity and sympathy, friendliness and tenderheartedness. Of course, kindness is all those things and more. But I have noticed another angle on kindness. Kindness is often connected to mercy, and mercy is connected to forgiveness. Look at these three examples.

Psalm 117: Praise the Lord, all you Gentiles! Laud Him, all you peoples! For His merciful kindness is great toward us, and the truth of the Lord endures forever. Praise the Lord!

Nehemiah 9:17b: But you are God, ready to pardon, gracious and merciful, slow to anger, abundant in kindness, and did not forsake them.

Ephesians 4:31-32: Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.

At Christmas much of the world is thinking of ways to be kind, giving gifts and making generous contributions to needy causes. My suggestion is to do all this, yes, but to include mercy in the gift giving. In other words, use this opportunity for some Christmas kindness that extends forgiveness.

Forgive your family members that you are not on speaking terms with. Forgive your parents. Forgive your children. Forgive your friends, your coworkers, your husband, your neighbors, your adversaries. This is merciful kindness, the kind that God has extended to us. Imitate Him. If He gives sunshine and rain to Read More

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A Joyful Advent

12 / 3 / 14
By Nancy Ann | Filed under Uncategorized | Tags: Everything Christmas

photo(61)I have a fondness for German advent calendars, having spent four happy childhood Christmases in Germany where my dad was stationed. This calendar pictured above is much like those I remember. We opened a little window each day, and the culmination was the church doors opening Christmas Eve to a manger scene.

This is a great metaphor for our own Advent celebrations. Each day should open onto a happy scene, looking forward to the big event, the appearance of the Christ child Himself.

Since this is obviously true, we should determine that all our Advent celebrations will be about joy and with joy. Look at your list of things to do each day, and determine to do each one with joy. If fact, if you can’t do it with joy, scratch it off the list. Joylessness is out of place. It would be like opening a window on the Advent calendar to find a troll.

It’s easy to excuse a lot of fussing over the massive pile of gifts to buy and wrap, cookies to bake, cards to mail, trees to put up and decorate, and all the rest. But pause for a moment. Each day opens up looking forward to the appearance of the Child. Joyful anticipation should be building.

Take joy with you in every task. Bestow it on every preparation. And remember, if you can’t do it with joy, don’t do it at all.

 

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Home for Christmas

12 / 14 / 1312 / 15 / 22
By Nancy Ann | Filed under Uncategorized | Tags: Everything Christmas

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They’re on their way to your house, even now, and who knows what visions of sugar plums are dancing in their heads. Are they imagining the big greeting, the fresh flowers in their bedroom, and their favorite meal just coming out of the oven? Days of sleeping in, waking up to fresh coffee brewing, lounging over breakfast, visiting old friends, and hanging out by the fire doing some pleasure reading?

Meanwhile, what are your expectations? Are you counting down until you have a little more help around the house? Maybe you’re looking forward to having someone wrap that pile of presents you have stuffed in your closet and finish your last-minute errands for you. And you are positively giddy with joy over handing off the kitchen clean-up duties. And then you’re expecting lots of heart-to-heart talks and one-on-one time.

So what could go wrong with this impending collision of expectations at Christmas? And what can we all do to avoid such an unnecessary collision? Here are a few ideas.

1. Review your expectations, whether you are Mom welcoming home your kids or you are the kids traveling home to Connecticut. Have you allowed some expectations to take root, and have you been watering them diligently?

2. You knew I was going to say this next: surrender all those expectations.

3. Now ask God for some ideas of how to be in the hostess or guest role. I know that moms don’t really feel they are hostessing their children, which is why they have high expectations of help. And grown children, whether married or away to college, may view themselves more as guests, which explains why they might expect the red carpet to be rolled out for their arrival. Both of these are wrong.

4. If we simply reverse our priorities, things will go much better. Instead of thinking how the Christmas break can be more of a blessing to me, I should be thinking of ways that I can make it a blessing to others. This sounds simple, but it isn’t. Not a bit.

5. Have some ideas in place. Rather than expecting help with the dishes, intentionally give them the night off. “Why don’t you go hang out with your little sister while I get these done?” Rather than planning to skip the family meal to go be with friends, why not offer to babysit while Mom and Dad go out to dinner and to a show? You get the idea.

6. When we have unspoken expectations, we are setting ourselves up for disappointment and maybe even resentment. “All he did the whole time he was home was hang out with friends. I hardly even saw him.” Or, “My mom just kept loading me up with chores, and I never even got to hang out with friends.”

7. How much better to view the time as an opportunity to serve one another. Determine that you will pray and work with the desire to see your relationship in better shape at the end of the visit.

8. Sentimentalism about Christmas can create a longing for something that we just can’t attain. So keep your head in the game and remember that we are celebrating a very real Savior. Though snow and lighted trees are beautiful, Christmas is commemorating a Savior who humbled Himself. We want to imitate Him, which will make our homes wonderful at Christmas and all year long.

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Joy to the Whirled!

12 / 12 / 13
By lizziejank | Filed under Uncategorized | Tags: Everything Christmas, From (Rachel) Lizzie

IMG_5480Have you ever seen those ill advised cupcake sprinkle applicators? I think they made them for children, and I feel like they may or may not have been an As Seen on TV product. I just remember stopping at Michaels by some kind of a plastic contraption that you insert a cupcake into and then in some way generate a windstorm of sprinkles and some of them stick to it, and marveling at the badness of the idea.  I really wish I had paid more attention to how the thing worked because at this very moment I think I may be stuck inside one. Read More

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The Lord’s Maidservant

12 / 12 / 1312 / 12 / 13
By Nancy Ann | Filed under Uncategorized | Tags: Everything Christmas

Mary’s famous response to Gabriel’s announcement that she will bear the Son of God should always humble us and encourage us: “Behold the maidservant of the Lord! Let it be to me according to your word” (Luke 1:38).

Mary didn’t have the full picture. She must have been completely caught off guard. But she has the composure to ask one question, and then settle the matter by affirming her obedience, her willing spirit, her faith and reverence. She assumes the position of a servant who joyfully submits to her Master’s plans for her.

Humility is like this. Mary’s faith is quiet and thoughtful. She considered (Luke 1:29); she pondered (Luke 2:19); she marveled (Luke 2:33); she kept (Luke 2:51). Humility believes and trusts.

So what can we learn from Mary? Respond in faith. God is “working in you that which is well pleasing in his sight” (Heb. 13:20-21). We have been created to do the good works that God has already planned for us (Eph. 2:10). We don’t need to understand it all or know the outcome. Our duty is to be the Lord’s maidservant, eager for God to have His way with us. And the glorious thing is that when He works His will in us, it pleases God. So it goes full circle. He works in us, we joyfully embrace what He calls us to do, and He is well pleased with the result.

 

 

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