A friend of mine told me an anecdote that she thought I might be able to use as an illustration of the pettiness of so many of our squabbles. She and her future husband were driving down the highway having an argument and had gotten out of fellowship with one another. In fact, they were angry with one another. As they rounded a bend on the highway, they spotted a wreck, and just as they drove past, they saw the ambulance crew zipping up a body bag and loading it into the ambulance. Needless to say, they both lost their desire to be at odds with one another, and they saw their own foolishness for what it was.